Consent

Why This Page Exists

Intensity without structure is not intensity. It is carelessness. The structure on this page is what lets us go somewhere real without either of us getting hurt.

None of this is a formality. Every line here is something I actually do.

Before We Begin

Nothing happens without a conversation first.

• We name the scope. What we are doing, what we are not doing, and how long it runs.
• You name your limits. Hard limits, which are never crossed. Soft limits, which are approached slowly or not at all.
• I name mine. Mine are as firm as yours and I state them plainly.
• You tell me what matters medically. Injuries, conditions, medications, anything that changes what is safe for your body.
• We agree the signals below, and we both repeat them back before anything starts.

If we cannot have that conversation easily, we are not ready to do the work.

Your Words, Always

If your mouth is not free, we agree a signal instead. Three taps on any surface or on my body means red. If you are holding an object, dropping it means the same.

While We Work

I check in. Out loud, repeatedly, and in ways that do not break what we are building. Your job is to answer me honestly.

You can stop at any moment, for any reason, including no reason you can name. You can change your mind about something you agreed to an hour ago. You can withdraw consent to one thing and keep it for everything else.

Consent given once does not carry forward. It does not extend to a later session, to a harder version of the same thing, or to anything we did not discuss.

Arriving

• Sober. No alcohol and no recreational substances before a session. Impairment removes your ability to consent and I will end the booking on the spot.
• Clean and cared for. Shower, fresh clothes, trimmed nails. This is basic respect for the person you are about to be close to.
• On time. Your session ends when it was scheduled to end, whatever time you arrived.
• Honest about your health. Tell me about anything that has changed since we last spoke.

What Ends A Session Immediately

These are not warnings. They end the session, the fee is kept, and I do not book you again.

• Crossing a limit after it has been named.
• Ignoring a yellow or a red.
• Arriving impaired, or using anything during a session.
• Touching me in any way we did not agree.
• Photographing, filming or recording without my written permission.
• Pressuring, bargaining or negotiating for something outside the scope we set.
• Any threat, any coercion, or any behavior that makes the space unsafe.

Afterward

We do not end abruptly. There is time at the close of every session to come back down, drink water, get warm, and say what needs saying.

Something can surface a day or two later. That is normal and it is not a sign anything went wrong. Write to me if it does. If it is bigger than what I offer, I will say so, and I will help you find the right support.

Discretion

What happens between us stays between us. That runs both ways.

I do not name you, describe you, or confirm to anyone that you exist as a client. You do not photograph me, share my private contact details, disclose my location, or speak about another client if you ever meet one.

How I handle your information is set out at Privacy.

What This Is Not

The full agreement sits at Terms. This page forms part of it.

My Right To Decline

I choose who I work with. I can decline an inquiry, end a booking, or close our working relationship at any point, and I do not have to explain why.

That right is not negotiable, and it is part of what keeps this space safe.